Dt 16.09.2008 ("Especially For You ...On Your 24th
Birthday")
Read this with a Smile.. as big as river Nile..It is your
birthday card..
Hi..well it was long pending..
i don't know whether i would b able to do justice to wt i
feel able 'us'..
finally managed to muster up and gt over the apprehension i
have been having which stopped me frm saying i hv felt like saying then.. well
without ending up sounding cliched..
let me tel you.. u r one f kind.. u r actualy hw people are
to u..fr each one f thm u r different..yet they see themselves in u.. u stoop
dwn to their level or u raise ur own bar to reach theirs as the case be.. this
cud lead to a misinterpretation.. tht u r nt u.. u r fake and living a dual
life.. bt thn tht is d way to live life...
i love ur simplicity.. and ur down to earth nature.. unlike
otrs.. u seem more real thn reality.. wd tht everlasting smile.. which cud be
so comforting no matter how things are in & around u.. and the unsaid
unconditional invisible thread of protection, that you are always there is such
a comforting feeling it is only now i hv realised..
it was probably this late revelation that made me sub
consicously think what i thought that day.. it was this sense of being there
forever.. and getting closer as friends...in the near future.. it was a
involuntary and that is what makes it special..
it was like a lightning.. strike once..and left a thoughtful
impact forever.. i am realy happy that something like that did happen..
It may be weird that a mere acquaintance in the college room
could crystallise into something so beautiful.. that little conversation would
snow ball into so many philosophical and other serious talks.. those puchka
sessions..those walk to the temple..it is very reassuring somehow..
but let me confess..i realy wonder why do you do what you
do.. as in come on i stand nowhere near you.. you gona make it big.. you have
already make it big.. and i am yet to come out to the world.. why such concern
for me.. i fear loosing you.. bt also snap the thought the very next
minute...and this is the weirdest part.. cz tho i knw things wd be jst the
same.. i dnt see why they would be from your side.. please don't read me wrong
here.. it is what i have been feeling..
is it weird to be so emotional, esp wn i am a guy. well i
really dnt knw..
i jst wnt to convey you what i have been feeling.. you have
made me realise loads f thngs.. wd every conversation. thr is smthng tht leaves
me pondering .. it feels good tht sm1 like is u around.. it gvs u sm strength..
i am sure we gona come wd a book .. our book.. our
passion,... our dream.. it is something really big.. we have been craving for
it.. and it gona materialise i am sure..
jst kp in touch.. and remember.. we might be far away in
distance.. bt nt in heart.. and we are all under the same roof... the sky!!
right? just kp smiling..
get ur way to the top.. gt us all proud.. kick sm asses..
hit sm basses.. fuck up.. cm up smiling.. like tht cmng out f dumpster still
pretty for a pose..
kp ur marwari outlook alive.. it is ur lifeline..
above all kp tht simplicity right there.. it is very
difficult to be simple fr it is so tempting.. buddy! u wd go places.. they r
jst waiting fr u.. jst go grab it.. prove thm..wt mettle u r made up f.. i wnt
to see u at the top.. ur simple living high thinking gna tk u places..
a request jst kp in touch ne hw.. it wd b really difficult..
u knw it is nt abt hw frequently we tlk .. it is nt abt hw frequently we meet..
it is abt wnvr v tlk and wnvr v meet the emotions, feelings, understanding
remains the same, as f it ws nly d otr day wn we met last.. m sure it wd b so
in our case..
Now i want to share something with you.. it is very special
indeed!.. Now that you would actualy start living a very different life.. these
should be your lightposts.. your pillar of supports.. these would change your
perspective some way or other..
it has made my conscience strong at many places.. made me
realise how wrong i was at others.. while some of them still need to be
understood but for their literal interpretation.. these are insightful and
would leave a lasting impact bro..If you will take the time to read these. I
promise you'll come awaywith an enlightened perspective. ..
The subjects covered affect us all ona daily basis!
I've learned....That the best classroom in the world is at
the feet ofan elderly person. I've learned....
That when you're in love, it shows.
I've learned....That just one person saying to me, 'You've
made myday!' makes my day.
I've learned.... That having a child fall asleep in your
arms is one ofthe most peaceful feelings in the world.
I've learned....That being kind is more important than being
right.
I've learned.... That you should never say no to a gift from
a child.
I've learned....That I can always pray for someone when I
don't havethe strength to help him in some other way.
I've learned....That no matter how serious your life requires
you tobe, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
I've learned....That sometimes all a person needs is a hand
to hold andaheart to understand.
I've learned....That simple walks with my father around the
block onsummer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.
I've learned....That life is like a roll of toilet paper.
The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
I've learned....That we should be glad God doesn't give us
everythingwe ask for.
I've learned....That money doesn't buy class.
I've learned....That it's those small daily happenings that
make life so spectacular.
I've learned...That under everyone's hard shell is someone
who wants to be appreciated and loved.
I've learned...That to ignore the facts does not change the
facts.
I ve learned....That when you plan to get even with someone,
you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
I've learned....That love, not time, heals all wounds.
I've learned.... dat the easiest way for me to grow as a
person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
I've learned.... dat everyone you meet deserves to be
greeted with asmile.I've learned.... dat no one is perfect until you fall in
love with them.
I've learned... dat life is tough, but I'm tougher.
I've learned..... dat opportunities are never lost; someone
will take the ones you miss.I've learned.... dat when you harbor bitterness,
happiness will dockelsewhere.
I've learned.... dat I wish I cud have told my Mom dat I
love herone more time before she passed away.
I've learned.... dat one should keep his words both soft and
tender,because tomorrow he may hv to eat them.
I've learned.... dat a smile is an inexpensive way to
improve urlooks.
I've learned.... dat when ur newly born grandchild holds
your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.
I've learned.... That everyone wants to live on top of the
mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.
I've learned.... That the less time I have to work with, the
more things I get done.
Wish you all the best in all your future endeavour.. for you
really deserve it.. you have got something..some mascot that would drive people
towards you.. and yeah girls too..
:) Warm Regards,Abhishek Sureka